Making Plans versus Being Spontaneous
I can be very spontaneous about activities, and sometimes am. But, I know myself, and know that I do better if a I have a plan. It does not need to be a detailed plan, but there has to be some semblance of an idea or possibility that the activity will occur, before I usually engage in the activity.
I think this is in keeping with my somewhat rigid sense of rules and right and wrong. I can be flexible, and I understand about grey areas. But I do not like to break rules, I like to do the right thing just because it is the right thing to do.
But, if I am contemplating an activity, and have considered it for a while, when the time comes, I frequently act swiftly. So, while that is not total spontaneity, I do act quickly and on what some might think impulse. It is just that they do not realize how much mental energy I have already put into the activity.
Labels: comfort zone, plans, schedule, spontaneity
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